Here are some of the books that have helped me to prepare for motherhood, gentle parenting, attachment parenting, and raising children to have a growth mindset.
My grandfather bought this book for me when my child was a baby, and I loved it. It has guided me to talk to my child, speak to them about consequences to their actions, and setting boundaries, without yelling or punishment.
The concept of "connect and redirect" emphasizes the importance of connecting with a child and understanding their perspective before redirecting their behavior. This can help build trust and respect between parents and children, and can lead to better long-term behavior outcomes.
Carol Dweck's book "Mindset" explores the concept of a fixed mindset versus a growth mindset and how it can impact a person's success and happiness in life. The fixed mindset is characterized by a belief that our intelligence and abilities are innate and cannot be changed, while the growth mindset is based on the idea that we can improve and learn with effort and persistence.
This book helped me move towards a growth mindset rather than a fixed mindset, and speak to my kiddo in a way that will allow them to develop one as well.
When I started learning about attachment regarding relationships with out caregivers influencing the way that we show up in romantic relationships, I made the decision to parent in a way that supports secure attachment.
This book explains how individuals form attachments with others, and how our attachment styles influence the way we interact with our partners. They also have practical advice and tools for improving your attachment style, such as identifying and expressing your emotions, setting healthy boundaries, and building secure relationships.
I read this book before having my child and I felt that the information inside helped me prepare for motherhood. It is a comprehensive guide for parents as it covers a wide range of topics related to child care, including breastfeeding, sleep, toilet training, discipline, and medical care.
Dr. Spock encouraged parents to trust their instincts and adapt to the unique needs of their child. He also emphasizes the importance of emotional bonds between parent and child, and the benefits of responsive, empathetic parenting.